We go again to Eric Church’s challenge to the graduates of University of North Carolina:
The people who tend to their faith in ordinary seasons do not come undone in the extraordinary ones. They still hurt. They will still sit in hospital waiting rooms asking unanswerable questions at 3 in the morning, but they have a foundation to return to. – Eric Church
Some people are really put to the test. David and Alicia Lloyd were missionaries to Haiti, running a children’s home in Port Au Prince. Their son, Davy, in his early 20s, had recently married a lovely Christian girl, Natalie, and they were enjoying serving in Haiti together. After all, Davy grew up there.
On March 23, 2024, Davy and Natalie, along with Judes (pronounced “Jude”), a Haitian staff member, were brutally murdered by one of the (too) many gangs that operate virtually unimpeded in Port Au Prince. The parents, again, David and Alicia, worked with my friend and accomplished Christian author Dean Merrill to write a book about their mission, their son and his wife, and their murder.
Strong to the End is short (June and I both read it the same day), but it’s a brutal read. Satan-inspired sin is real and ugly:
The thief comes to steal, kill, and destroy… (John 10.10)
When I say “brutal and ugly,” here’s an example. The bodies of Davy and Natalie were flown home for burial in Missouri. Judes was buried in Haiti, of course, but in his casket was the part of Davy’s leg that was cut off by the murderers.
The Foreword of Strong to the End opens with:
There are stories that shape our faith, and there are stories that test it. The pages you are about to read do both. – Mike Pence, 48th Vice President of the United States
Test our faith? You bet:
- Why do the good ones die early?
- Why does God allow the deaths of two of the finest, most dedicated people of their generation?
- Why do their godly parents have to go through the pain of burying their children?
- Why are there no guarantees of outcomes when we give our lives to God’s service? (Of course there are no guarantees of outcomes any time. See the story of my friend Bob Edelstein. He didn’t know the end game when he married Theresa, maybe, 10 years ago.)
And so it goes. But it’s not a new story. Read Acts 12. James dies. Peter lives. Stephen’s martyrdom is reported in Acts 7, at the hands of Saul of Tarsus who later becomes the Apostle Paul. I’m praying that some of those gang members meet Jesus in this life.
And the counsel of a country singer still stands:
The people who tend to their faith in ordinary seasons do not come undone in the extraordinary ones. They still hurt. They will still sit in hospital waiting rooms asking unanswerable questions at 3 in the morning, but they have a foundation to return to. – Eric Church
You can read about the book Strong to the End, along with as yet not completely updated info about the work at https://www.missionsinhaiti.com/.
…Some were tortured, refusing to accept release, so that they might rise again to a better life. Others suffered mocking and flogging, and even chains and imprisonment. They were stoned, they were sawn in two, they were killed with the sword. They went about in skins of sheep and goats, destitute, afflicted, mistreated— of whom the world was not worthy—wandering about in deserts and mountains, and in dens and caves of the earth.
And all these, though commended through their faith, did not receive what was promised, since God had provided something better for us, that apart from us they should not be made perfect. (Hebrews 11.35 – 40, ESV)




