When I wrote about The Big Three – Gambling, Alcohol, Sex – some of you might have objected to my phrase: “gambling in all its forms.” I hear, “Surely a just-for-fun small wager on a game or small stakes poker with some guys in the neighborhood isn’t hurting anyone.” Stay tuned.
One of my heroes just passed away last month. Ken Love who was part of our discipleship ministry in Alabama, passed on September 25.
This sentence from the obituary needs a bit of expansion:
On February 1, 1999, he made a life-changing decision and accepted Jesus as his personal savior.
As Ken tells the story, his wife had been dragging him to church for about a year. On that day in February he pulled into a business parking lot off the Troy Highway, south of Montgomery, and accepted Jesus…
I was coming off of a three-day drunk and had just dropped $50,000 on the Super Bowl.
He continues:
After that, I never took another drink; I never laid down another bet.
An alcoholic and a compulsive gambler, Ken went on to share his story and lead recovery programs. 27 years of effective ministry before his homegoing. I was Minister of Discipleship in Ken’s church from 2001 – 2006, and along the way, I taught Ken how to have daily time with God. I teach a simple template: Read, Reflect, Respond, Record.
Ken put that template into a spreadsheet with a tab for each day’s time with God. When he showed me the spreadsheet, he had recorded over 400 consecutive days! He would get up at 4:00 a.m., lift weights, and have time with God. (He would have been in his 60s at the time.)
When I left the church in 2006 to go full-time with The Navigators, Ken was a significant, faithful donor for many years.
Back to the opening paragraph and my caution against “gambling in all its forms.” Ken, how did you get started gambling? Answer: “Playing penny poker in the Marines.”
The Apostle Paul wrote:
I thank him who has given me strength, Christ Jesus our Lord, because he judged me faithful, appointing me to his service, though formerly I was a blasphemer, persecutor, and insolent opponent. But I received mercy because I had acted ignorantly in unbelief, and the grace of our Lord overflowed for me with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus.(1 Timothy 1.12 – 14, ESV)
Paul continued:
I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved his appearing. (2 Timothy 4.7, 8, ESV)
I believe Ken was greeted by Jesus:
Well done, good and faithful servant…Enter into the joy of your master. (Matthew 25.21, ESV)


